I walk this path with you.
Hey brother,
I know it has been a long and winding road that led you here.
There is a flame burning inside of your heart that has become stifled. It isn’t burning with the fierce love that’s true to your core.
It’s blanketed by a scream of pain, a gnawing voice of “something isn’t right,” or a whisper of “what the fuck are you doing?”
Whatever flavor of anguish, anxiety, or suffering you’re experiencing;
I get it; because that’s what led me here too.
I get it; because I am you.
In the circle, I am an ally in your pain, your honor, and your calling to live selflessly.
I’ll point out blind spots so we can clear what’s in the way of your growth, together.
You stay in the seat of yourself.
No one here walks your path for you — just as others didn’t walk mine for me.
I do this work because life has been generous with me, through teachers, brothers, and hard lessons.
Passing that on is the only thing that makes sense.
But it didn’t start out that way.
By the time I was 25...
My mind was shattered from substance abuse, my best friend was in prison for life, and my only brother was dead from a drug overdose.
This is when I knew. Enough was enough.
I decided the cycle would end with me. I had to start with myself. Life brought me teachers, teachings, and lessons; but they couldn’t do the work for me.
I dug deep within, surrendered to my soul, confronted my shadow, and received the gift of my darkness. I came out changed. I'm still in in it.
What did I find? I found the same thing I continue to find over and over.
I have a choice...
I can choose to continue indulging my problems in an impotent way, or I can take responsibility, let go, open to love, and reclaim my power.
In this path of taking responsibility, I have seen that men are in severe trouble. We have been stripped of our embodied masculine power and cut off from the divine source of life.
This needs to end. It needs to be addressed.
That’s why I founded Brothers of Wisdom: to end the generational suffering of men through brotherhood, teaching, and initiation.
It isn’t mine alone anymore.
There’s a board, a chapter in Pennsylvania, and men trained to lead the circle.
My part is to initiate, teach, and challenge you as you reclaim your choice and free yourself from your suffering.
We’re here to help each other become the men we truly are.
Men have said...
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“BOW has helped me, through his clarity and directness, become clear on my boundaries in relationships, work, and life.”
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“BOW saved my life” - Jordan
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“Working with BOW has helped me become aware of my people pleasing tendencies. To see and feel the unexpressed anger and rage I have inside of me. My relationships are better now.”
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“Dillan is present, honest, and dedicated." - Phillip
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“Dillan’s guided breathwork was the most powerful healing experience of my life.” - Drew
TRUTH. HONOR. LOVE. SELFLESSNESS.
My Background...
Man UNcivilized Men’s Coach with Traver Boehm
Man UNcivilized Leader with David Boyd
Reiki “Master” / Energy Worker with Nina Best
Prema Breathwork Facilitator with Leila Dylla & Iraimer Ruiz
Earnest student of multiple spiritual lineages and religious traditons
Bachelors of Liberal Studies, Psychology Minor - University of Maine at Presque Isle